Just, please, go to a professional source. People online aren't going to help you, especially with the attitude you take towards any and all of our advice. If you want to be pitiful your entire life, fine, but don't drag the rest of us down. Go out, ask questions, and put yourself on track if you want something different. Excuses get you no where, and tend to piss people off when they're trying to help you. Perhaps that's why you've lost the support of a person or two.
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Posted 11 February 2006 - 03:16 PM
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Posted 11 February 2006 - 03:18 PM
I read the prospectus of the college.
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Posted 11 February 2006 - 03:29 PM
Yeah, that's nice. But I hardly think that's the only option you have for yourself. Hell, some senators started out pumping gas, for chrissakes. Have you tried Vet's suggestion yet? If not, it'd be wise to do so. If they can't help you then they could probably refer you to a similar group who might be able to. But it sounds more like you need an attitude change before a change in your education or work. Your attitude will be your biggest drawback and weakness. Because, yeah, as of now, it just looks like you want people to hold your hand and pity you more than anything else.
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Posted 11 February 2006 - 03:36 PM
I should forget about any further education?
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Posted 11 February 2006 - 03:47 PM
Uh... no. I didn't say that. I'm just saying that it's probably not your only option.
But see, this is why you should seek advice from professionals and not from teenagers that go to an online forum. They can answer questions better than any of us can, and quite frankly, you shouldn't base any of your life decisions on what you see posted up on a message board. Go talk to people who make a career out of helping people find their way. Again, try Vet's suggestion.
But see, this is why you should seek advice from professionals and not from teenagers that go to an online forum. They can answer questions better than any of us can, and quite frankly, you shouldn't base any of your life decisions on what you see posted up on a message board. Go talk to people who make a career out of helping people find their way. Again, try Vet's suggestion.
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Posted 11 February 2006 - 05:31 PM
Husky, I'll say it straight.
Get off the internet and seek guidance from people professionally trained to help people. Even those here who want to help you simply cannot due to the anonymity of it all. Unless you get up and actually do something about it, nothing will change.Yeah, fine, you read this or did that, but then you quit because it didn't work out - that's not trying. You can whine or make as many excuses a you like to say you are, but you simply are not. It is impossible to not find anyway whatsoever to find a place for yourself in the world, even a temporary one to hold onto in order to support yoursel while figuring out what to do in life. There's always something. Always.
Get off the internet and seek guidance from people professionally trained to help people. Even those here who want to help you simply cannot due to the anonymity of it all. Unless you get up and actually do something about it, nothing will change.Yeah, fine, you read this or did that, but then you quit because it didn't work out - that's not trying. You can whine or make as many excuses a you like to say you are, but you simply are not. It is impossible to not find anyway whatsoever to find a place for yourself in the world, even a temporary one to hold onto in order to support yoursel while figuring out what to do in life. There's always something. Always.
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Posted 11 February 2006 - 10:27 PM
Yeah..I totally agree with DJ and Selena..what you need to do is stop asking on a forum with a bunch of teenagers who arent professionally trained to help you. We know just about as much as you do about the whole thing. Personally if I was in your situation I would be making hundreds of phone calls all over the world to find somewhere I could either start over or continue my education, even if that meant living on the other side of the world..as long as they would take me. But I am not you >.> but do yourself a favor and get off line for just a week or so and try acting for once instead of just reading
