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Posted 04 November 2004 - 08:26 PM

Jeezum. Oh well, so much to reply to. I think I'll just post rebuttals to Selena and thabto. And maybe Granite's smartass comment about a cash prize. ;)  
I'm not going to pretend that my religion doesn't affect my opposition to gay marriage, because it does. So, I'll say it before and I'll say it again: I am in favor of gay civil unions, just not gay marriage.


So, don't marry if you're gay, but settle with a civil union, if that's what you believe and if that's what your religion stands for. Just, don't go forcing your religious opinion upon others though, cause they might not share the same religion and might just want to marry each other.

Over here, marriage was opened up to same sex people quite some time ago, and we were the first country in the world. Understand that people like you in my country are people who want to take away my right to marry the one I love. Is it really fair to judge other people by your own personal beliefs and standards?

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 08:30 PM

Quite relevant, considering I can point out a few parallels between the War on Terrorism and WWII. Nazism hasn't been destroyed. It's lost all government and military influence/power, and has lost nearly all of it's supporters, but the idea still exists. This is the same way the War on Terrorism should be, and is, going about.


Well, technically, either side could make a claim that the War on Terrorism is similar to World War II. So I wouldn't really try to use that as a comparison, if you're on either side, unless you expect some kind of rebuttal.

Can you please be serious about this? Ridiculous labeling doesn't get us anywhere- AND it's enough reason for me to getting you banned from Contro. I've already given you more chances than promised in the Contro, or Legends Alliance Rules. Don't make me regret it.  


I've seen you be just as bad before (although not lately). I don't necessarily like his statements, but either deal with it or abolish bashing on either side. ;)




We're the only nation on Earth still engaging in imperial activities. We let World War One happen (if you don't know what I'm talking about, I'll be glad to explain). We are the biggest problem there IS.


We didn't let anything happen. We left Europe to their own business, and things exploded in Serbia. Make up your mind Alak, should America be involved with other nations' business or not?




Actually, that's an excellent point. A lot of people seem to switch stances when it comes to previous wars and this war. Probably because now that the previous wars are over, we know what happened, and know what we probably should have done. While not all wars are the same, and they have the ability to make some people indesicive (myself included sometimes), we've really got to take a stand as to when war is acceptable or not, and when it's proper to meddle in affairs of other nations.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 08:43 PM

*eats popcorn while watching interestedly*

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 08:46 PM

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 08:49 PM

God bless you, SteveT. My hero!

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 08:50 PM

I had a feeling that's the one you had in mind. I don't know why it's not in the LA emote list.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 08:57 PM

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 09:01 PM

And you're wrong again. You'll disagree with me, of course, and you're not going to listen to me, but it bears saying: You are correct that fighting terrorism requires not only that you capture and kill those who are already out to do harm, but to reduce the number of others who will get sucked into such a bad ideology. I think you simply disagree with me that fanaticism is the inevitable by-product of hopelessness and oppression (of course, people like Aluk and I have differeing definitions of oppression. Mine typically involves death camps, torture, and limited economic and personal opportunity. Theirs has little to do with anybody actually being hurt or oppressed, and actually INCLUDES things like freedom and self-determination). Under my view, it makes perfect sense that terrorism, fanaticism, and prejudice rise up in the armpits of the world, such as the Middle East, but is also to be found in the Balkans, South America, Africa, and all Communist nations. The solution, therefore, is to plant freedom, self-determination, and security in these areas.

I won't respond to your entire post Ditto seeing as you've so conveniently rendered your comments irrelevant. But I will say this: Your assumptions of me are unnecessary. I haven't even seen you or heard of you until this post so how you could automatically assume to know what I think is beyond me.

What people for some reason find objectionable is the notion that this requires the use of unbending force against those who do not want these things.

No, that's not it. What we find objectionable is how sloppy and uncaring that force is exerted.

Again, nobody will listen to me when I say that change through 'peaceful humanitarian aid' accomplishes nothing, as has been demonstrated over the last half-century, because it does nothing about the purely criminal thugs who prevent people for getting these things for themselves, and even steal the aid when it comes. You cannot improve people's whole life by giving them your money (or, in the case of the government and most charities, other people's money). Charity is short term. Independence, law (good law), and security, are long term.

How nice of you to separate the points I was making and treat them as if they were to be done individually. Of course humanitarian aid alone cannot solve the problem. Read my post again. Carefully this time. It says that a combination of military force, humanitarian support and the cutting off of financial support will help.

The problem with America's relations with other nations is indeed arrogance, elitism, illogical ideology, and self-righteousness... and I don't mean on our part. We know the lessons of history. It is other nations that have rejected them.

And that's exactly the kind of attitude that got us into this war in the first place. I'd like to bring you back down to reality if I may. America is not a moral superiority just because we have a strong military and a two hundred year old democracy.

That the war was illegal is not exactly universally accepted: http://news.bbc.co.u...ast/3661736.stm

Whether it's accepted or not isn't the issue. The fact that it was illegal is.

I'm not going to pretend that my religion doesn't affect my opposition to gay marriage, because it does. So, I'll say it before and I'll say it again: I am in favor of gay civil unions, just not gay marriage.

Then I will take this as a "yes" to my question that you are in favor of the goverment telling you who you can and can't marry.

I am most certainly not calling homosexuals animals. I'm just saying where do you draw the line? How do you do it?

Who says there has to be a line drawn? What is this need you feel you must have in separating yourself as us and them?

To respond to your last sentence, I'll tell you why divorce isn't entirely bad. Divorced people break up because they realize they don't love each other, at least not as much as they used to. If two people don't love each other, why should they retain a bond of love? To save face? Then it's a sham, and you continue to pervert the sanctity of marriage (five bucks says at least someone interprets this as me calling gay marriage perverted).

So you agree that it is a bond of love and not of man and woman?

The whole point about the war in Iraq has been about long term effects. If Bush was so interested in immediate results, Iraq wouldn't be a warzone right now. But as you stated, we agree on the terrorism thing. Except for one part: the Bush administration has focused on more than just killing terrorists -- we've been preventing attacks (supposedly) and freezing terrorist funds, to cut off their monetary supply.

Immediate results effect long term results. If Bush was interested in long term results he would have secured Iraq early and suppressed any insurgency before it could flare up into a huge rebellion not the other way around.

Also, do you have any facts or evidence to support your claim that we've (as you put it) "supposedly" prevented attacks?

But as Dryth has used against me so many times, peoples and nations are represnted, naturally, by their governments.

My fault I was confusing that with something else.

Taxes pay for things you want and more. Privatizing things mean you only pay for things you want. The quality of roads would be proportional to the number of people who want to drive. Certain things are responsibilities of the government. These include police, firefighters, public education, and a few others. There is nothing wrong with wanting taxes to support these. Fiscal conservatives prefer to leave it at that. Obviously a state with no taxation at all will have some problems.  

For services you actually want, you'd pay just as much. You just lose the convenience of thinking things like roads and parks are free.

I'm not sure what you're driving at. I thought I did, but I don't.

You just described every serious politician ever. Politicians in the country only have any foresight up to 4 or 6 years, depending on the office. This is why environmental issues are constantly ignored and we aren't doing anything about the depletion of oil. If they can't see effects before the election, career politicians see no point in starting policies.

You missed the point of what I was saying. What I meant by "immediate results" is that Bush was more interested in winning the war instead of what they were going to do afterwards. Same thing with the tax cuts. He was more interested in cutting taxes then in planning long term spending.

A question for both thabto and Hero? How is it the government's duty to protect the sanctity of marraige? Marraige is a moral issue.

That's exactly what I'm saying. It's not.

It's political equivalent is the civil union. I propose make civil unions fully legal, and marriage fully moral. This ways gays and atheists can have civil unions and get their tax breaks and visitation rights. Religious people get the civil union plus the sanctity of marraige and spiritual union.

But you're forgetting one very important thing: Gay people can be religious, too. And I'm sure that they hold the word marriage just as high in their book as you and HoW hold it.

P.S. I liked how Thabto countered the slipper slope fallacy with the slippery slope fallacy and you all want to pay him for it.

It's my technique, see. You counter a fallacy with another fallacy.

Seriously though, if you look back at the definition of slippery slope fallacy you'll see that in order for it to count as such b and c must be presented without any evidence to support them as the next logical step. In the case of HoW's fallacy there is absolutely no evidence whatsoever that any government would allow people to marry animals. In the case of my (supposed) fallacy I have the examples of segragation and the constitutional (and dare I say Christian) justification of slavery and that no slave can be truly counted as a human being. Sorry Steve. Try again.

Thank you thabto. Excellent point. I think you deserve a cash prize for that.

I'd like small, unmarked, nonsequential bills please as I plan to be leaving the country soon in search of a cave with a built in refrigerator and network connection.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 09:06 PM

Quite relevant, considering I can point out a few parallels between the War on Terrorism and WWII. Nazism hasn't been destroyed. It's lost all government and military influence/power, and has lost nearly all of it's supporters, but the idea still exists. This is the same way the War on Terrorism should be, and is, going about.

Nazism is an ideaology, terrorism is a tactic. No comparison.

Thanks for clearing that up. I was under the impression that the gay marriage issue rested entirely in my hands.

It was a bit of a rhetorical question. I wasn't saying you as in "you thabto" or "you Alak", as "you the people who get to make the decision."

I meant "you" in general.

Why don't YOU get serious? You can only hide behind your notions of big business conspiracies for so long.

I've never claimed conspiracy outside Carl Rove's quesitonable electoral strategy. I do believe that injustice is constantly present.

We didn't let anything happen. We left Europe to their own business, and things exploded in Serbia. Make up your mind Alak, should America be involved with other nations' business or not?

My bad, I meant World War Two. You're correct. As for foriegn intervention, I'm all for it, but Iraq is unlawful, immoral, and generally a bad idea.

Ditto. There's only so many times I can tolerate this anti-capitalist ideology of yours, Alak.

I reason. I've made concessions. I respect the ideas of others. This can't be said for certain other members, who, by the way, I'll no longer try to remove/ban/jail or regard. I'm sick of it, but there's no point in making it worse.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 09:12 PM

And that's exactly the kind of attitude that got us into this war in the first place. I'd like to bring you back down to reality if I may. America is not a moral superiority just because we have a strong military and a two hundred year old democracy.

Couldn't have said it better myself. Cheers.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 09:18 PM

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That's Alak's line. Or arunma, granite, or the admins'.

I'm not sure what you're driving at. I thought I did, but I don't.


That's probably my fault. Arright, fiscal conservatives prefer to limit government spendings. This means, more privatization of things that aren't the government's jobs. Lowering taxes means you get less superficially free services, but have the money to pay for them, only with control over the quality and frequency of those services.

You missed the point of what I was saying. What I meant by "immediate results" is that Bush was more interested in winning the war instead of what they were going to do afterwards. Same thing with the tax cuts. He was more interested in cutting taxes then in planning long term spending.


Precisely. Short terms decisions get you re-elected. Long term plans don't. I understood your point all too well.

But you're forgetting one very important thing: Gay people can be religious, too. And I'm sure that they hold the word marriage just as high in their book as you and HoW hold it.


Yes, they can. That doesn't give the government control over religion.

Seriously though, if you look back at the definition of slippery slope fallacy you'll see that in order for it to count as such b and c must be presented without any evidence to support them as the next logical step. In the case of HoW's fallacy there is absolutely no evidence whatsoever that any government would allow people to marry animals. In the case of my (supposed) fallacy I have the examples of segragation and the constitutional (and dare I say Christian) justification of slavery and that no slave can be truly counted as a human being. Sorry Steve. Try again.


First, I'd prefer you didn't dare. That justification was a mutilation of Christianity. There's also absolutely no evidence that the government would reinstant segregation.

Butting in on Hero of Wind's territory:

Who says there has to be a line drawn? What is this need you feel you must have in separating yourself as us and them?


The line, I believe, that Hero references is the line between what counts as a valid marriage and what doesn't.

Then I will take this as a "yes" to my question that you are in favor of the goverment telling you who you can and can't marry.


He and I seem to agree on seperating the concepts of marraige and civil unions to take marraige out of the political sphere. That means the government doesn't tell you who you can marry, only your spiritual leaders.

I reason. I've made concessions. I respect the ideas of others. This can't be said for certain other members, who, by the way, I'll no longer try to remove/ban/jail or regard. I'm sick of it, but there's no point in making it worse.


I'd only concede to the second one.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 10:28 PM

I’d like to bring up the gay marriage thing again, mainly about the civil union vs. marriage issue. Some of you support a civil union but not marriage for homosexuals but I see it as another way of making them second class citizens and taking away their rights. A civil union is a far cry from marriage in terms of benefits. Under a civil union they will only be entitled to state benefits (so none of those nice federal tax cuts) and other states are not required to recognize it. The whole reason I would support gay marriage is so they would receive the same benefits and rights as anyone else. The Supreme Court already stated that separate is not equal when it comes to schools, so why would it be any different on this issue. Also a legal marriage has nothing to do with religion despite what many think. My mother got re-married in a court house and it was a short ceremony and the word God was not mentioned ONCE during the entire thing. People put God into their marriage not the state.

There was also a comment on the last page about 60% of people not approving gay marriage. It is true that a majority are apposed but when compared to polls 30-50 years ago those numbers were a lot higher which shows that people have become more accepting and it should be just a matter of time till the majority accepts it.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 10:33 PM

I’d like to bring up the gay marriage thing again, mainly about the civil union vs. marriage issue. Some of you support a civil union but not marriage for homosexuals but I see it as another way of making them second class citizens and taking away their rights.


That is why everything legal about marraige shoudl be transferred to civil unions. All of it. Marraiges would be purely religious under the system I would like to see. From a political point of view a marraige woudl be meaningless and from a religious point of view, so would a civil union. The two should not mix at all except when people have both.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 10:45 PM

I agree, that's what I'd like to see too.

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Posted 04 November 2004 - 10:57 PM

I won't respond to your entire post Ditto seeing as you've so conveniently rendered your comments irrelevant. But I will say this: Your assumptions of me are unnecessary. I haven't even seen you or heard of you until this post so how you could automatically assume to know what I think is beyond me.

I apologize if you felt my entire response there was to what you, specifically, said, but I don't think I assigned any viewpoint to you you didn't express.

This happens a lot in debates with me. I neither can, nor care to, keep track of who exactly thinks what. Many times in the past, people make the argument that I missed their point when in reality, I wasn't responding to it, specifically, but to a broader issue or viewpoint. It may seem crass of me to tend to lump together everyone who disagrees with me into one general 'opposition' but really, there's just way too many people to keep track of the fine distinctions between each individual. I did not mean to apply Aluk's ideology to you. The only thing I said you believed was that terrorism requires a multi-faceted approach, which I agreed with. I then springboarded to attack a commonly-held (which does not neccessarily include you) opposing viewpoint.

No, that's not it. What we find objectionable is how sloppy and uncaring that force is exerted.

No, 'sloppy and uncaring' would be nuking Fallujah. Which wouldn't bother some people I know, I might add. Fortunately, I'm not along those lines. We're being very nice about this. Practically to our detriment. We're walking on eggshells to get the bad guys while trying to do as little harm as we can to innocents and property. Again, I'm going to respond to another widely-held view (not neccessarily yours, mind) that we're not winning any supporters. On the contrary, I hear on the radio now and again how support for our troops is growing, and how the Iraqis are turning against the radicalist elements in their country, who are, comparatively, doing more damage to them than we are.

How nice of you to separate the points I was making and treat them as if they were to be done individually. Of course humanitarian aid alone cannot solve the problem. Read my post again. Carefully this time. It says that a combination of military force, humanitarian support and the cutting off of financial support will help.

I didn't see 'civilizing the entire Middle East as a whole' among them. I saw military force, humanitarian aid, and cutting of financial support.

And that's exactly the kind of attitude that got us into this war in the first place.

No. It was Saddam Hussein trying to get cute over the wrong issue. I might remind you I support the war in Iraq. I don't consider it a failure. I still say we outnumber France, Germany, Belgium and Russia.

America is not a moral superiority just because we have a strong military and a two hundred year old democracy.

Of course it isn't. It's because we're the ones hosting the U.N. on our soil; because we give more in aid and support to other countries every year than most of the rest of the world combined; because we were one of the few nations not profiteering under the Oil For Food scandal; because we're doing the responsible thing by finally enforcing a U.N. resolution over a potentially dangerous issue, instead of bending over backward to short-sighted political pressures; and because we have the support of 40+ nations, large and small, across the world.

Whether it's accepted or not isn't the issue. The fact that it was illegal is.

Excuse me? Did somebody say 'illegal?' I'm sorry, I didn't realize the U.N. is the world's authority? If they were, they wouldn't have passed resolution after resolution saying the same thing, promising the same thing, and delivering on nothing. Kofi Annan does not rule the world, sorry to say. The U.N. is where the world comes to share viewpoints. It is not the final say. It has no business ruling anything 'illegal.' And a lot of countries, again, supported our move.

I've never claimed conspiracy outside Carl Rove's quesitonable electoral strategy. I do believe that injustice is constantly present.

You've made it quite clear you consider all wealthy people to be part of some sinister scheme to rob the world. You can't escape this one. We've got you. What say you, jury? Do I speak lies?

Actually, that's an excellent point. A lot of people seem to switch stances when it comes to previous wars and this war. Probably because now that the previous wars are over, we know what happened, and know what we probably should have done. While not all wars are the same, and they have the ability to make some people indesicive (myself included sometimes), we've really got to take a stand as to when war is acceptable or not, and when it's proper to meddle in affairs of other nations.

You get an iron trophy filled with Steak-Umms.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 01:32 AM

Aaand we start off wrong. Of course, we're debating 'what WOULD have worked' and thus hypotheticals, but one reasonably argues that tax cuts stimulated the economy (which it did) by encouraging investment (which it did), putting more money into the system and letting people have more of their own tax money (which it did). You can debate whether or not we'd have slipped further into recession without them (I aruge that we would have), but historically, these have been the cures for recessions, like it or not.

We were going through a natural dip in the economic cycle. A SMALL tax cut might have certainly help, but what we got was too big. It didn't stimulate the economy nearly close to what was predicted by the Bush Administration. I don't know about investments but the only money anyone in the middle class got was ONE sizable check in the mail. All tax cuts this large did was dry up a surplus and create a deficit.

Other than that everything else has been asnwered by others. Except marriage. Marriage was not a religious matter before. I see no reason it should be made stricktly a religious matter now. Don't get me wrong. I am not for forcing churches to marry gays. I am saying there is no reason to relegate terms. The word marriage was around long before God.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 06:16 AM

That is why everything legal about marraige shoudl be transferred to civil unions.  All of it.  Marraiges would be purely religious under the system I would like to see.  From a political point of view a marraige woudl be meaningless and from a religious point of view, so would a civil union.  The two should not mix at all except when people have both.


What does it matter what name you give it? Marriage is sort of a civil union. I don't know how the situation is in America, but here there are no churches involved in civil marriage over here.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 08:36 AM

Other than that everything else has been asnwered by others. Except marriage. Marriage was not a religious matter before. I see no reason it should be made stricktly a religious matter now. Don't get me wrong. I am not for forcing churches to marry gays. I am saying there is no reason to relegate terms. The word marriage was around long before God.

What makes you think that? Formalized monogomy--ie marraige, is an institution that predates law.

What does it matter what name you give it? Marriage is sort of a civil union. I don't know how the situation is in America, but here there are no churches involved in civil marriage over here.


Religious marraige is a spritual union. Political marraige is a civil union. By completely seperating the two, the civil union is no longer a moral issue, and the spiritual union is no longer influenced by politics--as they both should be.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 08:57 AM

That's what I mean. I wouldn't call it "political" marriage, though. I would call the one in the church "religious marriage" and the one in for the state "civil marriage". That's how it is in the Netherlands, the two are completely seperated, but it has been for a long time. My question was, isn't that the case in America as well. I mean, you don't need a church to get married for the state, right? That sounds like a stone age concept.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 09:57 AM

Why is marriage in the law AT ALL? We've outgrown state churches, burning witches, and the rest, but we still give tax breaks to people for supporting a religious principle?

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 10:42 AM

Why is marriage in the law AT ALL? We've outgrown state churches, burning witches, and the rest, but we still give tax breaks to people for supporting a religious principle?


Because you can't tell people to just throw away their beliefs. Whether you like it or not, these moral issues will be decided by people's beliefs (indirectly) and not by their logic, for lack of a better word. That's what makes them moral issues.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 10:51 AM

I'm not telling anyone to throw away their beliefs. I'm asking them to keep them out of the law.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 11:05 AM

That's what I mean. I wouldn't call it "political" marriage, though. I would call the one in the church "religious marriage" and the one in for the state "civil marriage". That's how it is in the Netherlands, the two are completely seperated, but it has been for a long time. My question was, isn't that the case in America as well. I mean, you don't need a church to get married for the state, right? That sounds like a stone age concept.


Civil marraige/Civil uion...the only difference is semantics. You do not need to be in a church to have a civil marraige, but religious marraiges are simultaneously civil (under certain conditions). I'm not sure how the paperwork actually works out, though. The two are, therefore, not seperate. And they should be.

Why is marriage in the law AT ALL? We've outgrown state churches, burning witches, and the rest, but we still give tax breaks to people for supporting a religious principle?


Because marraige is one of many social phenomena that predate law. And please try not to embed stereotypes into your posts.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 11:12 AM

No, it isn't. Marriage came about after law, after cities, after all that.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 11:15 AM

Formalized marraige, perhaps.

But life-long monogonous sexual relationships (read: functional marraige) are much older than civilization. Even ducks do it.

The only difference is having the words and ceremonies to formalize it.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 11:29 AM

There's no evidence of that, and cultures immidiately predating ours (six thou. years ago, more or less) had no monogamous relaitonships at all. he idea is, actually, very rare in global societies, and quite dead in the US. Vertical Polygamy isn't any different.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 11:35 AM

Ok, monogomous is where I went wrong. Polygamy with only one male is commonplace throughout the animal kingdom (lions, some apes for instance). Likewise for monogomy (the afformentioned ducks). These species effectively use marraige in its most simplistic form, yet have no law.

Marraige, then, is a more innate concept that law.

And, umm, Vertical Polygamy? I don't know what that means. Are you sure that's even valid termonology?

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 11:47 AM

There is a valid terminology for what I'm talking about, and yes, that probably isn't it. Essentially, having mulitple seuxal partners over time, instead of more than one wife, moving from one gf to another until you can't, and have to stick with what you can get. Monogamy means ONE sexual partner. We really don't have that.

Yes, it's common in the animal world, but it doesn't apply to ALL animals, and humans aren't animals it applies to. Niether us, nor chimpanzees, naturally take a single partner. Marriage is an economic construct.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 11:54 AM

Monogamy means ONE sexual partner. We really don't have that.

That, of course, varies by era, culture, emotional attachment of those involved, etc. The goal of dating, for most people, is to find the person you wish to become involved in a long-term monogomous relationship with.

Yes, it's common in the animal world, but it doesn't apply to ALL animals, and humans aren't animals it applies to. Niether us, nor chimpanzees, naturally take a single partner.


Again, that varies. As far as mainstream western culture goes, it is the case. Swingers and frat boys dont' count.

Marriage is an economic construct.


Partially economic, more emotional.

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Posted 05 November 2004 - 12:03 PM

Yes, it's common in the animal world, but it doesn't apply to ALL animals, and humans aren't animals it applies to.  Niether us, nor chimpanzees, naturally take a single partner.  Marriage is an economic construct.


Haha, did you know that it's common for male black swans to have a homosexual relationship with only one partner, but in mating time to look for a female to mate with and next returning to his partner? :cool:




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