I think some people are missing the point with the comments from the media. There is nothing wrong with admitting that it is sad that anyone would throw their life away like this. That is what these boys have done and it is sad. I haven't seen or read anything that suggests anyone in the media feels these boys did not deserve it.
That would be understandable, but commentators didn't spin it that way. In fact, they made no effort to express sympathy toward the victim - nor did they mention any fault on the boys' part. They didn't say "it's sad how these boys chose to commit this terrible crime and throw their lives away." Just that it was sad that they were going to jail and their lives were ruined. Furthermore, the criminals only really apologized for having shared images of their crime, rather than apologizing for the crime itself. NBC painted the case as a "cautionary tale about not sharing media with the wrong people," or something to that effect. Not a "cautionary tale about RAPING SOMEBODY."
Women in this country are already hesitant to report rape because of the backlash they get - and having major news outlets (primarily CNN and NBC) focus on how the
rapists are facing some kind of tragic fate just makes that worse. If the victim had been watching that broadcast, then it would be no surprise if she felt horrible and guilty for having been "responsible" for this. And that's not okay, because victim blaming happens all the time. Lots of rape victims harbor unnecessary guilt for having "made a scene" by reporting their assaults, because that's generally how rape gets handled, and this probably gave them all some nasty flashbacks. It may also dissuade future victims from reporting crimes. If you rape someone, then I don't think you're entitled to much sympathy at all - no matter how promising your future was.
On the plus side, the number of people furious with CNN may force them to apologize. They're getting flooded with angry messages at the moment.
For a brief, shining moment, Fox News actually handled reporting better than the other major networks -- because they, at least, just said flat out that teens were convicted of rape.
Of course, they then broke legal protocol by releasing the name of the victim, so that shining moment faded real quick-like.