Just got back.
Since I'm a huge nerd, this is a movie I have opinions on, so WORDS.
I'll try and put all major spoilers in tags, but... Minor ones may slip by me.
As a standalone movieThis does pretty well, with a strong theme of dependence throughout the whole thing. Stark's character works, and probably does the most growth we've seen out of him in the entire series. I thought most everything was done pretty well, especially....
the villains were fairly effective in this means,
there were some really cool set-pieces, and it was much better then the trailer led me to believe. All in all a solid movie, my only complaint being that:
As a franchise movieThis movie felt more personal, and even with the bombastic ending, parts of it seemed smaller. In addition, the shady government stuff is coming more and more to the forefront. This bodes well for phase 2 movies in my mind, and makes me sad we won't get a Hulk movie in this phase, as the first one fits in better here thematically.
As I said before, Tony grew a lot in this movie. It also wraps up the Iron Man set nicely, which is neat. I didn't feel like Pepper got sufficient growth, but I went over that already. Rhodes didn't really grow, but his usage played to his strengths, a nice change from the past two movies. I liked the small name drops and the nod to the Avengers event. You didn't NEED to see Avengers for these to make sense, but it certainly would enhance your experience.
Also, we got AIM, and that could mean MODOK either in future Captain America or Iron Man movies. That's something I'd like to see.
As a comic book adaptationAll spoilers, I categorized them though.
Mandarin
Extremis
Iron Patriot