
So a friend of mine (oldbies would know her as Jasi


This bothers me more than anything else.
Today at 2:57pm
There are many issues an atheist could take up with Christianity, but this one really hits home with me. I guess I should elaborate that this could easily apply to someone of any religion, but of course given my cultural position, I have witnessed this primarily in Christians. I'm not trying to pick a fight with those of you whom I tagged--I probably tagged you because I value your opinion as a Christian (and in general!) and I hate to feel like I haven't heard both sides of an argument out fairly. I really want to know what you think.
I was browsing the Xanga starting page, where they feature different blogs/posts, and I came across an entry called "I can't prove my faith". I could respect most of what it had to say--basically it just that even though this person can't offer empirical evidence for their faith, she still chose to be Christian.
Fine, I can't argue with that. But what bothered me so much was this:
"I have faith because my faith is all I've got, and no one can take it away from me.
If I give up my faith, I have nothing to live for.
If I live up my faith, I would see no point in love."
I think it's sad when people say that without their faith they would have nothing to live for. My father said this to me in reference to some suicidal thoughts he had had, and I felt very offended and betrayed--what about me, and my brothers too? How can you say that you have nothing to live for when you have parents, children, siblings, lovers, friends, whatever? Any kind of human relationship is something to live for. Love is its own cause. Love is a beautiful phenomenon of human existence that atheists and theists of all creeds share and experience just the same. How can you say that it is meaningless without faith in some kind of hereafter?
(Obviously, this whole argument is nullified if this person has literally no friends or family, but let's be honest--most people have at least one person on whom they are dependent, or who depends on them, at least. I'm assuming that because this person mentioned "love", she is capable of loving, and/or is loved.)
I have to disagree with this element of this girl's post, fundamentally. Does this person honestly believe that her faith faith is the only reason that she lives, and loves? That if, hypothetically, religion were somehow completely proven false, that she would want to simply kill herself, because life is now meaningless? I think that is a horrible thing to say, regardless of your religion. And yet, it is clearly a very real feeling to some theists.
Someone please explain this to me.
(Here's the post: http://www.revelife....prove-my-faith/ )
Thanks guys.